Grandmotherland: Exploring the Myths and Realities

Grandmotherland: Exploring the Myths and Realities by Judith Edwards takes readers on a journey through the cultural and psychological landscape of grandmothers. The book challenges stereotypes, offering a nuanced exploration of the role of grandmothers, questioning common images such as the sweet, apple-cheeked granny or the sinister, wolf-skinned matriarch. Edwards delves into the myths, fairy tales, and family histories that shape the grandmother archetype, while also reflecting on the lived experiences of women today.

Rather than a “how-to” guide, this book aims to deconstruct preconceived notions, offering a broader understanding of the complexities of grandmotherhood. It considers the psychological and external factors that influence how grandmothers experience their role, including personality, culture, family dynamics, and the impact of childcare pressures.

With global and intercultural insights, Edwards explores the toll that caregiving can take on grandmothers, especially as they become more relied upon as childminders. The book also addresses fractured family relationships and the emotional challenges grandmothers face when excluded from their grandchildren’s lives.

Grandmotherland is written for anyone living the reality of grandmotherhood, those anticipating the journey, or those who have opted out or been denied the experience. It’s a thought-provoking read for professionals in psychoanalysis, social work, sociology, anthropology, and related fields.